Weekly Writing Challenge – Ghosts of December 23rds Past

The December 23rd of the past I write of is December 23rd of 1996. That was the last time my family was whole. We were 84 days into the final 99 days of my younger brother’s short life. Prolonged mysterious health issues blossomed into a cancer diagnosis on October 1st of that year and the following days were progressively worse as his life ebbed away.

My family was small, only my father, mother, my brother Kevin, and I. We were your average family, with some aunts and uncles, one grandfather and grandmother remaining. Two grandparents had passed by this time, but it is not such a foreign cocnept for an older member of your family to die. My brother was young, only 29 that year.

My brother, son and I.

My brother, son and I.

This was my full bore introduction to Cancer, the disease that would eventually claim not only my brother, but father, mother and too many other family members in the following 14 years. That December 23rd was unlike any other I had ever known. My wife is a realist, having lost her father seven years before to this horrid disease. She tried to prepare me for the coming reality. My brother was going to die, that was very clear two days before Christmas. He was barely a shell of his former gregarious, fun-loving self.

I am a man of faith and always truly believe if God has a purpose for healing anything is possible. But, as I said this was also my first personal experience with the disease. I can remember earlier on when the idea first was shared he might have Cancer I asked him about his salvation. I knew he was, but to me it was something that needs to be uttered and clear. I told him that was the most important thing and we would handle all the rest.

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Dad and me the day my brother was born.

Three years later I experienced the first December 23rd without my father. He died in October due to complications from lung Cancer. Eleven years after that was the first without my mom. December 23rd is not really a significant day in the scheme of life, other than it is part of the run-up to Christmas. But those when I had all my family are more precious now than they might have otherwise been. This is what I remember about December 23rd.

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About Joe Owens

Can you tell from my writing I love God? I hope so because that is what I want you to know most about me. I am also a writer who loves taking on fiction prompts and crafting a story. One day you will read my work in print. Until then enjoy it here! For free!
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5 Responses to Weekly Writing Challenge – Ghosts of December 23rds Past

  1. I think you have been brave to write this post. Sue

  2. I to am sorry for all your loss. My brother-in-law and my best friend I lost to cancer. But you did say it, that when God calls us home to help do his works in Heaven, it brings me much comfort. Even though their lives are taken in suffering, my personal thoughts on this, it’s is the “Evil Man” downstairs trying a last ditch attempt to get us to turn away from our Creator. But OUR FAITH is much stronger for his tricks! Amen.
    Wonderful post & writing challenge entry!
    God Bless,
    Author Catherine Lyon 🙂

  3. We don’t get to keep anyone. All we have is the knowledge that they were here and we had the opportunity to love them. I’ve decided that is a LOT.

  4. bikerchick57 says:

    I’m so sorry that you have lost your parents and a brother to cancer. I hope this Christmas has been blessed with their loving memories.

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